How to Attract Women & What to Say

Women are often attracted to men who have status, money and security, but men can improve their chances by being themselves and exhibiting a healthy dose of self-esteem. It can be intimidating to approach a woman for the first time, but if a man exudes humor and sincerity, he will be ahead of the game. It is recommended to act as natural as possible, and here are a few ideas to fall back on if you appear tongue-tied.

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1Pay attention to your appearance. A clean, crisp look matters to women. Get your hair trimmed and shave off any unwanted facial hair. Select an outfit that is color coordinated and brings out your best features. If you need assistance, ask a female friend for guidance.

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2Exude confidence when working a crowd of people. Women like a man who is sincere and honest with them, but is also sure of himself and not willing to compromise his values, especially during tough times.

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3Develop a unique sense of humor. A woman appreciates a happy and positive personality. See if you have a knack for your own brand of comedy by trying out a few witty jokes on her.

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4Hit the bars and clubs with a group of friends. This shows women that you are secure and happy and like to have fun with a variety of people. These friends may be able to introduce you to a pretty woman at a bar.

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5Engage her by starting a friendly conversation. You can start by introducing yourself or, if you are at a bar, you might ask "What do you think of this band?" or you can ask her if she's seen the latest hit movie, anything to get the conversation rolling and for find out what she is interested in.

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6Compliment her on her dress or style. Sound genuine, such as "That's a great sweater, it brings out your eyes." If you are not confident in this, just compliment her and walk away. If she is interested in continuing the conversation, she will follow or look you up later.

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7Create a reason to go over to a group that includes the woman you like. Pretend you thought she was someone else to start a conversation. Say: "Liz, hi, is that you, no, sorry, you look just like an old friend." Or ask the group's opinion on a topic, as in whether you should grow a mustache, and pay close attention to her answer.